Linking of love between the people suffered considerable modifications, after as many social and economic changes. The current world detaches fluidity of the relationships, searchs in satisfying their necessities and diffidence in relation to the other to survive. This work retakes the differentiation between loving and liking, the experience lived for ego and id, considered to winnicott’s psychoanalysis. Love is seen as difficulty in perceiving the other as different of itself and the lived relationship to satisfy their necessity, differently of winnicott’s liking, had as related to ego and the desire to have the company of the other, as complement, not as part of itself exactly. It is common in the clinical contemporary finds patient that searchs the other for satisfaction of their necessities (dependency relation), what it causes feelings of solitude and depreciation of itself; with predominance of organizations borderline. Finally, in analytical relation, it is possible to think the linking with the other that makes possible autonomy and confidence, by means of the provide a enough good environment, holding and support to the style of being personal.